You don't have to keep holding everything together

Therapy for adults and adolescents navigating anxiety, pressure, perfectionism, burnout and life's transitions.

In-person therapy in Kingston and virtual therapy across Ontario.

Maybe you’re here because…

For Adults

Maybe you:

  • Have trouble saying no, even when you desperately want to.

  • Feel guilty when you prioritize your own needs.

  • Spend a lot of time worrying, overthinking, or trying to get things “right.”

  • Hold yourself to standards you would never expect from someone else.

  • Feel burned out but can’t seem to slow down.

  • Find yourself constantly taking care of everyone else.

  • Feel disconnected from who you are underneath your roles and responsibilities.

  • Know something needs to change, but aren't sure where to start.

For Teens

Maybe your teen…

  • Feels overwhelmed by school or academic expectations

  • Worries constantly or has trouble switching their mind off

  • Puts enormous pressure on themselves to succeed

  • Is afraid of disappointing others

  • Struggles with perfectionism or fear of failure

  • Has become increasingly self-critical

  • Is withdrawing from family or friends

  • Seems overwhelmed by emotions

  • Is struggling with confidence or self-esteem

  • Is going through a difficult transition

  • Has a hard time talking about what's actually going on

About Me

Hi, I'm Alison.

I'm a Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying) based in Kingston, Ontario. I've worked in mental health since 2015, with experience across hospital mental health services, treatment programs, correctional settings, and interdisciplinary teams.

I work with adults and teens navigating anxiety, pressure, perfectionism, burnout, self-worth, and life transitions. My approach is warm, collaborative, practical, and individualized.

Alison Lappan, Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying), in her Kingston therapy office

Feeling overwhelmed? Start here.

When your thoughts won't slow down, your body feels tense, or everything simply feels like too much, it can be difficult to know what to do next.

I've created this free Grounding Toolkit to give you a few simple practices you can try when you need a moment to slow down and reconnect with the present.

Inside you'll find:

  • 5 simple grounding techniques

  • Breathing and sensory exercises

  • Reflection prompts

  • Gentle ways to create a little more space when you're feeling overwhelmed

These aren't about doing everything perfectly.

They're small tools you can return to when you need them.

A colorful infographic titled 'Grounding Toolkit' with sections on practical grounding techniques, tips, and resources. It features illustrations of books and potted plants, with text emphasizing simple practices for emotional grounding.